Why is the National Council for Adoption (NCFA) holding a webinar for families with Russian and Ukrainian adoptions, yet has not held anything for families with Ethiopian adoptions?
The NCFA Facebook page says: “As the crisis has unfolded in Ukraine, NCFA is aware that adopted individuals with roots in Ukraine and Russia, and their families, are grieving and grappling with how to process these events.” NCFA is hosting a free webinar next week, “Supporting People in the Adoption Community with Roots in Ukraine and Russia,” with a panel of adoption agency professionals to provide guidance and expertise. This could be valuable and important for these families; I respect, applaud, and support that.
I am curious though.
Ethiopia has been experiencing a horrific civil war since November 2020. NCFA has held no webinars offering guidance and resources for Ethiopian adoptive families. Why is that?
From the BBC:
“In Ethiopia, the last 16 months have been hell.
In the north of the country, as a result of a conflict in Tigray, more than two million people have been forced from their homes.
In addition hundreds of thousands face starvation, and the government has been accused of blocking deliveries of aid and essential medicines – something it denies.
There is mounting evidence that war crimes may have been committed by both sides, include mass killings and widespread use of rape as a weapon of war.
On the scale of human suffering it is surely on a par with anything else that is grabbing the world’s attention.”
Why has NCFA, by their own description the “leading expert on adoption issues, providing resources and education for all people and organizations in the adoption world,” been totally silent on Ethiopia? There are some 15,000 Ethiopian adoptees in the United States, and thousands more around the globe.
Yet NCFA has offered nothing for them or their families.
Many Ethiopian adoptees are deeply worried about their Ethiopian families. Many have family members who have been killed, maimed, and starved. Many adoptive parents struggle to explain the complexity and devastation of the war to their adopted children. Ethiopian adopted individuals and their families, like the families with children from Russia and Ukraine, “are grieving and grappling with how to process these events.” NCFA’s webinar will host adoption agency representatives (not, as best I can tell, adopted adults from or citizens of those countries) to provide the insights and leadership.
Adoptions from Ethiopia ended in 2018. Adoptions from Russia ended in 2013. Adoptions from Ukraine are still happening, though the numbers have been increasingly low and obviously the situation is very complicated now.
NCFA will, in this upcoming webinar, “provide guidance and clinical expertise for navigating this challenging time” for the Russian and Ukrainian families.
But not, apparently, for families with Ethiopian adoptions.
Why is that?
You can ask NCFA directly here:
Phone: (703) 299-6633
Media Line: (703) 718-5375
Email: ncfa@adoptioncouncil.org
Infuriating, unconscionable, unacceptable. Thank you for sharing, Maureen.
I agree, Dina! I look forward to their response, if there is one.